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This video represents just one facet of my life. It is rare for a girl to show interest in me, but this is the kind of reaction I would give her. And of course, the ending and his face captures the same emotion that I have expressed without words.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uVBOr1hhiY4

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This is love-shy, not incel. This doesn't happen to incels.

I once thought I saw a woman smile at me. I assumed I was hallucinating, so I went home, took an aspirin, and went to bed. Never happened again (in the femisphere).

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Relate. But Im unsure if I would do that if it was just the two of us though Im 100% sure I would if there were other people around.

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I'm pretty sure this is how people used to see me. I was even diagnosed with schizoid once. Not sure how well it applies to me, but I guess that's part of the disorder.


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Well, if I'm in public or alone, I'd react in this manner. Granted it's super rare for someone to be so openly attracted to me.

If anything this gives me nightmares more than any zombie movie. I actually have to fight to keep my eyes from closing 2/3 of the way of the video. I did that when people kissed on t.v. when I was a kid. Yet, my eyes were there for the werewolf ready to kill in The Howling.

Watching romantic stuff is too much for me. Anger Management with the public proposal at the end had me hiding under my seat. Yet, I'll be yawning through Paranormal Activity. I just don't understand it.

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This never has happened to me. Girls (other than family) never show interest like that. So I can't relate to the experience, BUT....

I can mildly relate to his reaction. I could see myself refusing to go to parties because I would be too shy to pull it off and sometimes (most of the time) I enjoy my own company. If the girl was someone I knew and trusted, who wouldn't mock my lack of social/sexual prowess then maybe I would take her up on an offer to attend a party. I've refused party invites before out of pure fear. For fear of boring the guests or making a fool out of myself, etc. For the record, these invites had been by family and relatives trying to integrate me in their social circles, not by random girls.

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I can relate to the way he behaves shyly around her, though I don't know why he'd be classified as schizoid.

I can't relate to the overt attention he's getting from the woman. It's obvious from the film that she knows him already. I've never received that kind of open attraction from any woman. Seen it happen plenty to other guys, though.


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That's what would happen to me if I was in that same situation.

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I don't think I would react like that in that situation. If she was actually the one taking the initiative in such an obvious and unambiguous manner, I think I could handle it rather easily. I think I could (don't have any experience proving me right). My problem is being the one initiating the contact, because then I fear rejection and humiliation to the extent that I basically have a panic attack. I think it's due to some degree of social anxiety.
The weird thing is, I only suffer from a slight degree of social anxiety in other situations like calling people I don't know on the phone, which I can easily do but feel uncomfortable while doing. In most situations though I actually don't suffer from it at all. For instance I have no problems going to a night club or bar etc. or generally socializing with people.
Never had any women show any real interest in me though.

I can relate to what Xanatos30 said. I'm not generally a person whose really scared of a lot of things. I'm often really calm or indifferent when other people are shitting their pants. I too have never had any problems seeing peoples organs being splattered around the room by a psycho with an ax (in a movie that is), but once someone starts getting romantic I feel awkward, and I've felt that way since I was a kid too.


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Just finished seeing "Immortals" in the theater and it has one huge sex scene. Of coure it is about how the girl is this "pristine virgin" who happily gets deflowered by the hero. I felt like that whole sexual tension had to be cut, but at the same time is was a terrible cliche. Alpah male -best looking guy gets alpha female-best looking woman.

I prefer more tragic videos like the one I posted or ones with deep thinking. I should stick to more foreign films; the audiences in America are just oversexed. I can sit through a hundred werewolf zombie movies yawning, but the real terror is seeing something like this new movie with Justin Timberlake, "Friends with Benefits."

Seeing that ^ trailer pissed me off. Another sicking movie with beautiful people having lots of pre-marital sex.

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Yes this video reminded me of me

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This video in some ways reminds me of myself, but I think that I would get that the girl was interested in me. As nervous and as bad at picking up on social ques as I am, I think that I would recognize that the girl has an interest in me. Fortunately, I do not have Aspergers and am not a Schizoid, but I do have OCD and high social anxiety.

As scary as that situation would be with a woman approaching me like that and asking me out, I would gladly take it. There is nothing more terrifying than the thought of having to approach a woman.

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As scary as that situation would be with a woman approaching me like that and asking me out, I would gladly take it. There is nothing more terrifying than the thought of having to approach a woman.


Yes I would gladly take it too. Too bad it has never happened (incel inside).

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Not at all. Never happened to me.
I literally sometimes have to jump into her face to make her stop pretending she doesn't notice me.
And then, she makes disgusted or disappointed face.
CRAP!
And to rub in some more salt and pepper into wounds, that guy looks really good, only frowns too much.
In what universe women touch men first, without $$$? I want to travel there!!!

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I can somehow relate - especially during my early 20's. I was so tense around girls. I blushed very often and my gestures were nervous. I never had the courage to ask one for the date even when I wanted to.

Women rarely approach anyway - only when they feel instant attraction to certain men.

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Likewise, deep in the mind of modern woman is the same hunter-gatherer calculator, too recently evolved to have changed much: strive to acquire a provider husband who will invest food and care in your children; strive to find a lover who can give those children first-class genes. Only if she is very lucky will they both be the same man . . . Men are to be exploited as providers of parental care, wealth and genes." - Matt Ridley "The Red Queen"

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