Please help!!

The Lonely Soldier · **Posted:** 16 Aug 2012, 01:40

I am a 22 year old LS currently in service with the US Army for almost three years, and I desperately need help. I can't take this bullshit anymore, 22 years old and my mother living in Puerto Rico is literally begging me to give her a grandson, Please help me I am on the verge of suicide!!!

PS: never had any physical female contact, I REALLY WANT TO GET MARRIED!!!!

DeadmanWalking · **Posted:** 16 Aug 2012, 01:40

? WTF?

The Lonely Soldier · **Posted:** 16 Aug 2012, 01:44

I asked my self that when my mom asked for a grandson, my only option is death. . .

Fonduman · **Posted:** 16 Aug 2012, 01:45

why married?

first off, a solution probably isn't right around the corner. most likely, it'll take a while to get somewhere. so you need to stop putting so much pressure on yourself to grab the end goal, and learn to be content, for the moment, with smaller steps.
It's all how you look at it. easy to get caught up in self-pity and want it to end.
but, you're 22. plenty of time to sort things out. wouldn't throw in the towel yet.

DeadmanWalking · **Posted:** 16 Aug 2012, 01:47

Not to mention that even if you do meet someone and fall in love, she might not be able to conceive?
Ever thought of that?
At 22 you are rather young to be a dad anyway

The Lonely Soldier · **Posted:** 16 Aug 2012, 01:55

Spend 3 years in a organization and 22 years in a family that literally stigmatizes you for being the only virgin in the family! I just need some one to love me!! someone to help me start the loving family i always wanted, even my f--king platoon sergeant laughs at me for being a virgin!!

Nature Boy · **Posted:** 16 Aug 2012, 02:10

I know you're not going to want to hear this, but...

The most expeditious and effective way for you to fix this problem would be to tell your fellow soldiers that you're a virgin. They will rib the hell out of you, but I bet they will relish the challenge of solving the problem.

The Lonely Soldier · **Posted:** 16 Aug 2012, 02:34

if I do that pretty soon Ill have the whole battalion ripping on me, besides im looking for a wife, not some slut for a one night stand.

Nature Boy · **Posted:** 16 Aug 2012, 02:51

Do yourself a favor. Sleep with a slut for a one night stand. Then you won't be a virgin any more, and you'll have that albatross off your back.

Besides, who knows, you might end up getting married to that slut. :rofl:

No matter how bad you think it will be having the whole battalion ripping on you... It's better than still being alone ten years from now. Desperate times call for desperate measures.

Hopeless_Romantic · **Posted:** 16 Aug 2012, 03:10

Make friends with some of your Army buddies and go with them to bars, clubs, or other places to meet women. You're too young to get married, wait at least 5 years before you do that.

The Lonely Soldier · **Posted:** 16 Aug 2012, 03:29

I dont know what to say. . .

The Lonely Soldier · **Posted:** 16 Aug 2012, 03:33

im still considering suicide. . . guess my mom will never have a grandson. . .

Hopeless_Romantic · **Posted:** 16 Aug 2012, 03:46

The Lonely Soldier wrote:

im still considering suicide. . . guess my mom will never have a grandson. . .

Seek a psychologist or psychiatrist. If you're in the Army then these services are provided to you for free, use them!

The Lonely Soldier · **Posted:** 16 Aug 2012, 03:51

.....

The Lonely Soldier · **Posted:** 16 Aug 2012, 03:52

I dont want the Army to see me as a weak virgin loser. . .

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