I tried some weeks ago to register on the incel forum - just around the time I registered here.

I believe that I have a legitimate reason to participate in the incel forum because I'm an incel that is genuinely seeking to understand his condition and attempt to change things for the better.

Now I don't think I did anything wrong. I just signed up and am still "awaiting moderation" - or whatever it is that means that you can post, vote and see other people's profiles (let alone contact them.)

Is there anything special that I need to do to get moderator approval?

Did I offend anyone? (I have sent email to the moderator email address to try to find out what's happening and whether I did anything wrong.)

I have heard nothing back from the moderator by email and am still "awaiting moderation".

Is the incel forum accepting new members?

Is there anything I should have done that I didn't?

Is there anything I could have inadvertently done when registering that would cause offence or be flagged for non-approval? (If so, sorry, I didn't mean to offend.)

Just wondering because it didn't take long to get approval on this forum. What's going on over there and did I do anything wrong?

Fuck it - even the other incels are rejecting me now!

lol
just don't. unless you're into self-harm.

They have to make sure that you only blame yourself (assuming you're male) for your incel.

You must NEVER blame women; it's not their fault that they are FUCKING SLAGS now is it?

I don't mind being refused entry. But it would be polite to give a reason. I could quite understand if they picked one of these:

"we've got such a sock puppet problem that we've closed registration"

"we need you to do something else to join that you didn't know about / forgot / didn't see"

"you don't realise but this is a closed group with a public archive"

"we looked at your registration, your email address, did some internet searching and decided we think you'd cause trouble here so we're not going to allow you to enter our forum"

"the forum is closed"

"the forum is closed to new applications"

"we can't be bothered to maintain this forum"


Answers I wouldn't find acceptable:

<no answer - just being ignored>

"we bar your entry because you are aren't a woman"

"you must prove that you are an incel"

Why is it so important for you to get into a forum that is so exclusionary? You're clearly already getting what you described as an unacceptable answer for you.