I kissed a girl. I liked it.

einy · **Posted:** 12 Jan 2012, 01:29

1 kiss, after two years of separation, before we'd officially sorted it out and the single time I ever did anything even approaching questionable in our relationship in 7 years. Perhaps you are right and I was a bitch, but I'm forgiven, and I've forgiven worse. Not everything is black and white.

Tenda Lucas · **Posted:** 15 Jan 2012, 04:19

She was separated from her ex, she told The Doctor that it was highly unlikely that anything would happen past that night, so she didn't lead him on. Am I missing something? I'm against leading a guy on by acting like you want to do more with him and really like him, but she made it clear that this wasn't the case. Well, if I'm missing a detail here, lemme know. But I'll have to go with the "whiteknights" on this one. And I'm saying this as a dude that been lied to and strung along, but einy is not guilty of this.

run312 · **Posted:** 15 Jan 2012, 08:31

Ethnocide wrote:

run312 wrote:

First let me congratulate you

Having done that, I'd say you definitely shouldn't feel bad about having kissed her. As I see it, we live in a free world. People can do what they want. It's not your responsibility to judge her morally or anything like that. If she consents to fooling around with someone else, then it's not their problem whether she's being unfair to someone else or not. That's her responsibility. If she's okay with what she's doing then you shouldn't feel like you're doing anything wrong. I've always figured that when people cheat over a longer period of time, it's really because they're living in an unhappy relationship which they should have ended a long time ago. So the problem really is not that they're having sex with someone else. It's that they didn't end the relationship first.

So..... the harm, or hurt that the cheating causes the other person.... that's just a total non issue I guess. That doesn't even enter into the equation. You're fucking retarded kid.

Of course it is an issue. You miss the point entirely. It is a question of where you place the responsibility. I don't think he can be held accountable for that. You're right that maybe it would have been a good deed if he had stopped this for the sake of the girls boyfriend. But now that it has happened, he is not the one who should feel bad. It is her responsibility to be faithful to her partner. As a side note, I would personally not like to be with a girl who is willing to cheat more than one who actually cheats. The integrity lies in the intention not the action.
Your lack of ability to form a sentence may obstructed our communication slightly.
Sincerely, the retarded kid.

singlegirl · **Posted:** 20 Jan 2012, 07:42

einy wrote:

1 kiss, after two years of separation, before we'd officially sorted it out and the single time I ever did anything even approaching questionable in our relationship in 7 years. Perhaps you are right and I was a bitch, but I'm forgiven, and I've forgiven worse. Not everything is black and white.

I think there tends to be a lot of black and white thinking here.

alienafternoon · **Posted:** 20 Jan 2012, 08:17

Oh christ.

Girls when they're intoxicated have no brains, and therefore can't decide whether or not it's right to kiss someone or not!

What I find most disturbing about this is exxie butting in, and giving her opinion, which is, as usual, completely off base. Sounds like a perfectly clear communication, from what I understand, and no hard feelings.

The Doctor · **Posted:** 29 Jun 2012, 08:54

A year ago today. Sigh.

Ethnocide · **Posted:** 01 Jul 2012, 15:44

The Doctor wrote:

A year ago today. Sigh.

Still thinking about that huh? I thought you said something to the effect of being over it?

Departed · **Posted:** 01 Jul 2012, 15:48

Ethnocide wrote:

Still thinking about that huh? I thought you said something to the effect of being over it?

I guess nothing happened to him since then.

Dante Alighieri · **Posted:** 03 Jul 2012, 21:01

Maybe he's kissed some girls after that but he hasn't gotten laid and he's not getting any younger. His progress amounts to pretty much nothing in the end and he's still light years away from any kind of a relationship. It's sad, actually, but as long as he's ok with it....

The Doctor · **Posted:** 06 Jul 2012, 20:31

Ethnocide wrote:

The Doctor wrote:

A year ago today. Sigh.

Still thinking about that huh? I thought you said something to the effect of being over it?

No, I'm just lamenting my lack of further success in the intervening year.

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