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Author:  Nature Boy [ 28 Jul 2011, 02:35 ]
Post subject:  Surrogate Partner Therapy

This seems pretty interesting, although expensive:

http://www.icasa.co.uk/male-sexual-inexperience.php

Author:  Cenobite [ 28 Jul 2011, 08:26 ]
Post subject:  Re: Surrogate Partner Therapy

This is the kind of stuff that the NHS should pay for.

NOT endless prescriptions for happy pills (which can actually make suicidal urges STRONGER BTW). I'm way past the 'Bububububu you just havent met the right woman' bullshit. I'm actually mentally and emotionally damaged now. When I am in a rational frame of mind I can see this is true.

Author:  loveablenerd [ 29 Jul 2011, 05:31 ]
Post subject:  Re: Surrogate Partner Therapy

Cheaper than a prostitute (per hour), and a whole lot more useful.
Looks like what Gilmartin advocated only better because it goes a lot further.

If I was still LS I would start saving for a trip to the UK right away.


Edit: I'm going to go ahead and sticky it for now.

Author:  foxyproxy [ 29 Jul 2011, 14:52 ]
Post subject:  Re: Surrogate Partner Therapy

Reminds me of this:
http://www.channel4.com/programmes/virgin-school/episode-guide/series-1/episode-1

It follows a guy who goes to something similar in Amsterdam.

Author:  Onkel Willie [ 26 Oct 2011, 14:30 ]
Post subject:  Re: Surrogate Partner Therapy

loveablenerd wrote:
Cheaper than a prostitute (per hour), and a whole lot more useful.
Looks like what Gilmartin advocated only better because it goes a lot further.

If I was still LS I would start saving for a trip to the UK right away.


Edit: I'm going to go ahead and sticky it for now.


I don't know where you're from, but where I live I can easily get a two or three hour session with a hooker for the same money they ask for only one hour. I don't really know where you're getting the idea that prostitutes are more expensive :confused2:.

Author:  Fonduman [ 26 Oct 2011, 16:11 ]
Post subject:  Re: Surrogate Partner Therapy

slightly cheaper per hour for escorts here.
I'd probably feel very self-conscious and ashamed to try it, though. theres no presumption of sexual history (or lack thereof) when visiting an escort, although experience is generally assumed, and she may be less tolerant to LS traits.

Quote:
there are many un-partnered clients whose difficulties with physical and emotional intimacies inhibit them from forming intimate relationships. These clients can't access the best therapies for resolving their difficulties without a partner, and their difficulties keep them out of such helpful relationships.


huh. isnt this part of what we've been telling the mainstream posters for ages? and yet such a truthful insight is so casually thrown in there. I guess all you need for the truth to come out is a financial incentive for telling it :headsmack:

Author:  Onkel Willie [ 26 Oct 2011, 17:55 ]
Post subject:  Re: Surrogate Partner Therapy

Fonduman wrote:
slightly cheaper per hour for escorts here.
I'd probably feel very self-conscious and ashamed to try it, though. theres no presumption of sexual history (or lack thereof) when visiting an escort, although experience is generally assumed, and she may be less tolerant to LS traits.

Quote:
there are many un-partnered clients whose difficulties with physical and emotional intimacies inhibit them from forming intimate relationships. These clients can't access the best therapies for resolving their difficulties without a partner, and their difficulties keep them out of such helpful relationships.


huh. isnt this part of what we've been telling the mainstream posters for ages? and yet such a truthful insight is so casually thrown in there. I guess all you need for the truth to come out is a financial incentive for telling it :headsmack:


I was referring to regular prostitutes in brothels which is what I use. €50,- per half hour.

Author:  Fonduman [ 26 Oct 2011, 18:55 ]
Post subject:  Re: Surrogate Partner Therapy

Onkel Willie wrote:
Fonduman wrote:
slightly cheaper per hour for escorts here.
I'd probably feel very self-conscious and ashamed to try it, though. theres no presumption of sexual history (or lack thereof) when visiting an escort, although experience is generally assumed, and she may be less tolerant to LS traits.

Quote:
there are many un-partnered clients whose difficulties with physical and emotional intimacies inhibit them from forming intimate relationships. These clients can't access the best therapies for resolving their difficulties without a partner, and their difficulties keep them out of such helpful relationships.


huh. isnt this part of what we've been telling the mainstream posters for ages? and yet such a truthful insight is so casually thrown in there. I guess all you need for the truth to come out is a financial incentive for telling it :headsmack:


I was referring to regular prostitutes in brothels which is what I use. €50,- per half hour.


brothels arent legal here because technically I think paying for sex is illegal. It seems escorting can happen without fear of repurcussion so long as it is phrased as paying for companionship. lol, the attempts to enforce anti-protitution laws are so pathetic, as if you can tie down a sexual transaction when the fabric of marriage itself usually differs from protitution only subtly.

Author:  loveablenerd [ 26 Oct 2011, 21:17 ]
Post subject:  Re: Surrogate Partner Therapy

Onkel Willie wrote:
loveablenerd wrote:
Cheaper than a prostitute (per hour), and a whole lot more useful.

I don't know where you're from, but where I live I can easily get a two or three hour session with a hooker for the same money they ask for only one hour. I don't really know where you're getting the idea that prostitutes are more expensive :confused2:.

I'm from a state where prostitution is illegal and dangerous.

Nevada is the one state in the country where it is not, but as a result is prohibitively expensive.

Author:  Onkel Willie [ 29 Oct 2011, 00:59 ]
Post subject:  Re: Surrogate Partner Therapy

loveablenerd wrote:
Onkel Willie wrote:
loveablenerd wrote:
Cheaper than a prostitute (per hour), and a whole lot more useful.

I don't know where you're from, but where I live I can easily get a two or three hour session with a hooker for the same money they ask for only one hour. I don't really know where you're getting the idea that prostitutes are more expensive :confused2:.

I'm from a state where prostitution is illegal and dangerous.

Nevada is the one state in the country where it is not, but as a result is prohibitively expensive.


Go on a vacation to Amsterdam :).

Author:  Rudeboy41 [ 16 Apr 2012, 22:35 ]
Post subject:  Re: Surrogate Partner Therapy

I can think of one service that could be useful. Women are more interested in a bloke who already has a date. The surrogate partner acts as your date and because she's being paid for her amazing personality and glamour, she would know how to talk to other women and therefore get other women sitting at your table. You'd then talk to them. They would try to date you behind your surrogate date's back. Bingo?

Author:  shadowshelf [ 15 May 2012, 23:48 ]
Post subject:  Re: Surrogate Partner Therapy

Rudeboy41 wrote:
I can think of one service that could be useful. Women are more interested in a bloke who already has a date. The surrogate partner acts as your date and because she's being paid for her amazing personality and glamour, she would know how to talk to other women and therefore get other women sitting at your table. You'd then talk to them. They would try to date you behind your surrogate date's back. Bingo?


i don't know much about women, but I know that would never work.

Author:  Rudeboy41 [ 17 May 2012, 22:54 ]
Post subject:  Re: Surrogate Partner Therapy

I guess I knew that too which is why I didn't wast any of my own cash trying it out.

Otherwise I'd have got back and said "Hey I just tried out this thing and you know what, it works, it works. I've found a new system, I've found a new system. Persil automatic washes whiter. Sorry, just reminiscing on an old TV add of my boyhood.

Author:  oncebitten55 [ 17 May 2012, 23:37 ]
Post subject:  Re: Surrogate Partner Therapy

Onkel Willie wrote:
Fonduman wrote:
slightly cheaper per hour for escorts here.
I'd probably feel very self-conscious and ashamed to try it, though. theres no presumption of sexual history (or lack thereof) when visiting an escort, although experience is generally assumed, and she may be less tolerant to LS traits.

Quote:
there are many un-partnered clients whose difficulties with physical and emotional intimacies inhibit them from forming intimate relationships. These clients can't access the best therapies for resolving their difficulties without a partner, and their difficulties keep them out of such helpful relationships.


huh. isnt this part of what we've been telling the mainstream posters for ages? and yet such a truthful insight is so casually thrown in there. I guess all you need for the truth to come out is a financial incentive for telling it :headsmack:


I was referring to regular prostitutes in brothels which is what I use. €50,- per half hour.


That is much cheaper then a Nevada brothel hooker. Independant call girls are cheaper
and better then NV whores and you interview them over the phone or on email Of course in the US, its illegal to use sex workers. but some laws are meant to be disobeyed. No one was there to help me when I needed
them so a big fuck you to the police whores who entrap men who only want to feel alive.

Author:  Cenobite [ 19 May 2012, 06:50 ]
Post subject:  Re: Surrogate Partner Therapy

oncebitten55 wrote:
Onkel Willie wrote:
Fonduman wrote:
slightly cheaper per hour for escorts here.
I'd probably feel very self-conscious and ashamed to try it, though. theres no presumption of sexual history (or lack thereof) when visiting an escort, although experience is generally assumed, and she may be less tolerant to LS traits.

Quote:
there are many un-partnered clients whose difficulties with physical and emotional intimacies inhibit them from forming intimate relationships. These clients can't access the best therapies for resolving their difficulties without a partner, and their difficulties keep them out of such helpful relationships.


huh. isnt this part of what we've been telling the mainstream posters for ages? and yet such a truthful insight is so casually thrown in there. I guess all you need for the truth to come out is a financial incentive for telling it :headsmack:


Amen.

I was referring to regular prostitutes in brothels which is what I use. €50,- per half hour.


That is much cheaper then a Nevada brothel hooker. Independant call girls are cheaper
and better then NV whores and you interview them over the phone or on email Of course in the US, its illegal to use sex workers. but some laws are meant to be disobeyed. No one was there to help me when I needed
them so a big fuck you to the police whores who entrap men who only want to feel alive.

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