With this post I want to underline certain things; that, even though I am love shy, I still managed to get a girlfriend from a certain free- time community that I visit on a regular basis. I dont want to brag about it, but I want to declare that even though my situation was very bad, I still succesfully managed to get myself a permanent gf. We have been dating for three months now. I am optimistic about future and I, unlikely to me, am expecting summer with certain excitement. How did this happen, then?
I ignored the woman, played chess all alone in a corner. Then, the other day( I patiently waited before making my first move) I went to a group which included my romantic interest and I started chatting. I believe that I flared authoritity, optimism, warmth and excitement. I used an indirect way to open discussion with her and got her attracted to me.
Then, afterwards, few days later, I spoke to her all alone. Here's what I did; I spoke to her, and unpretentiously showed great personality and I was sincerely interested in her. I got her laughing, and invited her to a dinner party that was scheduled in this free time activity community later that week. I number closed and ended the discussion. That was my first successful cold approach. In truth, patience was a great lever here; I didnt rush things because appearing as too eager would have been too cheesy. And another facilitative factor was that after I got her interested in me it was all too easy.
The dinner party went great, and with millions of dates later I am now happy do accept her as my girlfriend. The enviroment was beneficial to me. That made the approach the most easy, cool and smooth. By the way, she is 35 and I am 23, so theres a small maturity gap between us. To be perfectly honest with you, there is an one twist. I had facilitated factors that we both liked same activitets( hence the free- time activity community), thus she is in an age which women are starting to get as desperate for finding a man as opposed it is vice versa. The environment was beneficial and and I performed some of my personal social magic
Nevertheless, I aint a rabbit. A rabbit is someone who judges us, the love shy and incel men. I am pretty awkward with women and in truth, I was one of the hardest cases you could ever imagine. Something else; I used to write books about loveshyness. The ideology which I share with you guys has been my shield against rabbits who will make you feel like shit. Now in the free time community, me and my gf are now an official couple, but the place is such a rabbit nest. I hate the fact that feminism has destroyed male authority altogether. My career as a writer is the second best thing that has ever happened to me, and finding this woman was definetly the best thing.
Now, as an advice I'd recommend that you'd expand your vocabulary and social skills. Social skills are the number one factor which will determine your success with women. You cant just pump iron and pretend to be a ”gun- ho strongman” suddenly. Getting jacked is too direct way to open, unless you've got ”it all” going for you, you know. The number one most attractive trait in a man to a woman, is being funny. Become a person who is also likable. The more people you get on your side the closer you are of being an attractive male.
Dont look away even if you are butt ugly. If you are smart, talkative and likable, then life should be smooth sailing, but only if you keep this one up.
Live, experience and believe, and everything is possible!