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PostPosted: 07 Sep 2013, 01:42 
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Women can actually be very nice if you give them a chance. Don't assume you're being invalidated just because the relationship has not turned sexual. Women don't like it when you feel sorry for them. Treat them like a pal and they will do all sorts of things for you.

Make sure you reciprocate by showing kindness instead of judgement and you will find yor social interactions go a long way. Practice openly flirting with the women on this forum and take them seriously instead of flaming them and you will find that they and more women will post on these forums.

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No. Just recognising my limits. What about you?


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Rudeboy41 wrote:
Women can actually be very nice if you give them a chance. Don't assume you're being invalidated just because the relationship has not turned sexual. Women don't like it when you feel sorry for them. Treat them like a pal and they will do all sorts of things for you.

Make sure you reciprocate by showing kindness instead of judgement and you will find yor social interactions go a long way. Practice openly flirting with the women on this forum and take them seriously instead of flaming them and you will find that they and more women will post on these forums.

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Nothing to dicuss here. Most humans can be "nice" if they choose to be. Then you have the whole notion of what being "nice" entails, but for our purposes it means being polite and courteous to other humans, for awhile at least, that is to say.

Fact: Most sociopaths and even many psychopaths, both male and female, can act nicely, when they are really out to stab you in the back. Lots of serial-killers can and were quite "nice" in order to lure their victims into a trap, where they died horribly, in most cases.

Fuck it all, but most politicians are quite "nice" during election year, but then they vote into law that which benefits only them, or the people who are paying them, and that does not including the voting public these days in America, where its all about the "Bottom Line", baby.

Nope, not gonna blame this behavior on women alone. Lots and lots of men can act nice, but only if there is a reward for them of some sort, just like women. In my line of work I have had more then my fair share of managers and dispatchers, who would only treat the "ass-kissers" nicely, not someone like me who has little need for small talk and no wish to be a "team-player" (meaning an ass-kissing drone).

Since I do not kiss anyone's ass, for any reason, I have either quit or been fired from more then one job, over the course of my life and I don't regret it at all. I have dumped what is left of my family for the same reason. I wont pretend to be nice to someone who thinks that they have some kind of hold on me, and that I should play "nice" in order to get along with them.

Here is how it works with me: Show me some decent respect, and I will do the same for you. Be polite with and to me, and I will also do the same. Honest respect + politeness= "niceness", in my book of life. No respect/politeness and you are on my shit-list of people whom I could care less about. They can take their bags of tricks and shove them right up their asses.

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Of course women can be nice. Why would they not be nice? The issue is that I don't care for them to be nice if they are not going to go out with me. Being 'nice' is not enough.

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Anglo women are so nice to me...
That they wont have sex because i might get rug burn
That They wont have sex because some other lucky lady might not get the chance (aka no one)
That They wont have sex because they know i'm on a monogamous relationship with rosie palm
That They wont have sex because i'm the reason the escorts industry had a 3mil net profit last year & dating me would negatively impact the economy (that supporting a lot of single moms yknow)
That they don't want to break my Guinness book of world records of rejections.

I think these are funny. Feel free to add lol.
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Women seem to be very nice until it comes to the bedroom when all hell breaks loose. Women seem to believe that males have no sexual feelings. Certainly I've never heard women speak of them, even in fiction.
Men acknowledge the sexuality of women. Well, it's impossible not to. Women see themselves as the ultimate authority on sex but believe strongly that men have no sexual feelings whatever. As long as sex is not brought up, women can be nice.


Where in the hell did you get that idea? Men have no sexual feelings? Thats news to me for sure.

As for women being the ultimate authority on sex, that would be men, who toss and turn a fuck..err...I mean a woman into positions she never knew were possible.

I dont know where you got these crazy ideas, but lots of women have no imaginations in the sack, so you do what you have to do fuck her in every way possible. Fucking being nice.

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Women seem to be very nice until it comes to the bedroom when all hell breaks loose. Women seem to believe that males have no sexual feelings. Certainly I've never heard women speak of them, even in fiction.
Men acknowledge the sexuality of women. Well, it's impossible not to. Women see themselves as the ultimate authority on sex but believe strongly that men have no sexual feelings whatever. As long as sex is not brought up, women can be nice.


Where in the hell did you get that idea? Men have no sexual feelings? Thats news to me for sure.

As for women being the ultimate authority on sex, that would be men, who toss and turn a fuck..err...I mean a woman into positions she never knew were possible.

I dont know where you got these crazy ideas, but lots of women have no imaginations in the sack, so you do what you have to do fuck her in every way possible. Fucking being nice.


I got these crazy ideas from women I have met. They didn't seem to think I had any feelings. I can't remember the point of the original OP, if I was joking or being serious.


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Hence why as long as we keep up with the exclusionary attitudes around here, we will get nowhere. I always thought that we need more "normal" people here (not just women) to burst thought bubbles around here and break some worldviews. But this is a house of despair and more than a few are prepared to defend it.

House of despair. Nice. I like that.


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Rudeboy41 wrote:
Women can actually be very nice if you give them a chance. Don't assume you're being invalidated just because the relationship has not turned sexual. Women don't like it when you feel sorry for them. Treat them like a pal and they will do all sorts of things for you.

Make sure you reciprocate by showing kindness instead of judgement and you will find yor social interactions go a long way. Practice openly flirting with the women on this forum and take them seriously instead of flaming them and you will find that they and more women will post on these forums.

Discuss.

I'm kind to woman, they see me as a friend.

And to those who are going to say retarded things like "women won't reward you with sex", I don't give a fuck about sex, I would just be super happy if a woman could be "more than friend". Not gonna happen.

I thought you were currently in a sexual relationship?


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It was 8 months ago, things have change, but she can still dump me before the end of the month...
I would't call it a "sexual" reltionship, giving the difficuties I have to face regarding this very topic.


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It was 8 months ago, things have change, but she can still dump me before the end of the month...
I would't call it a "sexual" reltionship, giving the difficuties I have to face regarding this very topic.


You are in a relationship. The two of you are having sex. Ergo, a sexual relationship is what you're in. And that's more the most guys here can say. Count your blessings and focus less on the negativity. Instead, consider yourself lucky for having exactly that which so many other men lack. You are a blessed man. Accept it.


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Define "having sex" ^^
I know I'm blessed and I'm really happy. As I said, it IS wonderful to have a loving girlfriend.
And on topic, she's really nice :)


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Define "having sex" ^^
I know I'm blessed and I'm really happy. As I said, it IS wonderful to have a loving girlfriend.
And on topic, she's really nice :)


Well you penetrated her on more then one occassion the last week or so, that's having sex innit?


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Women are nice I agree. Some are not but that might be 20% of them. That's my take on it.

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Rudeboy41 wrote:
Women can actually be very nice if you give them a chance. Don't assume you're being invalidated just because the relationship has not turned sexual. Women don't like it when you feel sorry for them. Treat them like a pal and they will do all sorts of things for you.

Make sure you reciprocate by showing kindness instead of judgement and you will find yor social interactions go a long way. Practice openly flirting with the women on this forum and take them seriously instead of flaming them and you will find that they and more women will post on these forums.

Discuss.

So? They still view you as unfit for a sexual relationship while you don't view them the same way (for the most part). There's a power difference there and of course the underprivileged are going to resent the privileged. It's normal.


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