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I don't experience any of theses emotions.

I experience mild paranoia at being mistaken for a homosexual but this is offset by my long standing superiority complex combined with the fact that my 'condition' sets me apart from the 'normal's'.

Revel in your individuality.

He walks among us, but he is not one of us.


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Thanks for sharing your thoughts. It's understandable that you want to vent out your frustrations and anger, etc. I have felt the same way. Although I didn't feel too shy to approach women (after high school) and I did such a thing, I just never got anywhere with it -- a mere friendly conversation at best. I never once managed to escalate interaction to a sexual level. Besides, I most conversations/chats with women, I heard the woman say mention something like "... My boyfriend ..." or "... My husband..." -- within a few minutes of our conversation. It seemed like it was "always something". I have been trying a wide variety of things, and following various advice, off and on for over 20 years, in an attempt to get an appealing girlfriend, but nothing ever clicked. I got so upset and angry about my insanely consistent failures.

In recent years, I have found some new resources, including a Sex-positive meet-up group. I joined that group, and it looked like I had the possibility of FINALLY getting somewhere with dating, but no. For no apparent reason, I was kicked out of the group, and the leaders were rather snotty about it, too. I felt that it was probably because of my Asperger's disorder, combined with my age and gross lack of dating experience. It's as though they saw me as nothing but like "a weed in the garden of human sexuality".

Now I can definitely understand how you tend to feel angrier after such long periods of not getting what you wanted. I have felt that way, too. Back in the early 1990s, when I started my dating pursuit, I was still in my sexy 20s. Now I'm f**kin 50, and it seems like my sexiest days are gone, especially when others reinforce those ideas.

Way back when, I knew that I had some psychological development abnormalities, but I certainly would 't have guessed that I would see my 50th birthday, or even my 40th, before getting my first girlfriend. Yet, I did.

During the past 2 years or so, I've been doing some research on the "dating markets" in other countries. I've heard that there are some places in the world, such as the Phillippines, Thailand, and a few Latin American countries, where it's considered normal for a fifty-something-year-old man to date a woman who's in her early 20s. It made me think "If I were to move there, it would be like getting a second chance for some exciting romance, etc.". My current goal is to a "digital nomad" (one who earns income by doing online work, and thus is not tied down to any particular geographic location. If I become a digital nomad, I could legally reside in such foreign countries without a work visa. I would just need to exit and re-enter that country every few months.

I feel that, if I do that, and combine it with all the dating strategies that I've studied over the past few years, I might finally succeed. I'm working on that goal now, because exciting dating/romance/sex is on my "bucket list". I'd rather not wait until my next lifetime. IMO, the USA's dating market appears to be a real shithole for InCel men, especially those over 45 like I am.

If you're wondering where I've studied dating strategies, my main source is from http://www.TheModernMan.com. Just be careful not to buy more than you need.

Feel free to read my intro, which is in the Member Introductions thread. There may also be a direct link to it from my profile.

Feel free to contact me when you feel you need someone to talk to about such Incel issues.


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Anger: Not as frequently as one would expect. The bulk of my anger is over the fact that virtually all women are dishonest to the point that even they themselves believe the lies they tell. Also, I hate the fact that a woman's love extends only as far as your ability to pay for her satisfaction. When I call them on their B.S., suddenly I'm the bad guy. With that in mind, I will never be able to trust or love a woman again so I question their purpose in my life.

Shame: Never. I am smart, creative, generous and I make wise decisions. I am confident that there is nothing wrong with me and that it is the system that is defective. There is a wealth of evidence to support this.

Bitterness: Absolutely. EVERY time I put women and sex out of my mind, someone brings it up again and makes me remember that stupid ex of mine and the idea that I may never be able to emotionally invest in another woman. I HATE being attracted to/interested in women. I resent the fact that biology makes me want a woman while logic tells me they are worthless. This is a paradox I will live with for the rest of my life and it takes a lot of will power on my part to not actively hate women.

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