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DATING, PICKUP, PSYCHOLOY

Effective Communication and Surpassing Social Conditioning

The Hot Seat Core Principles (Part 1)
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x419uo ... t-1_school

The Hot Seat Core Principles (Part 2)
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x41uq3 ... t-2_school

The Hot Seat Core Principles (Part 3)
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x419uo ... t-3_school

The Hot Seat Core Principles (Part 4)
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x419uo ... t-4_school

10 Commandments of Natural Game (Dating/Pickup)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kyxKOQviskM

Get Out Of Your Own Way (Psychology/Pickup/Dating))

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x4hkxc ... -hd_school

Offer Value (Dating/Pickup)

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x4hkxc ... -hd_school

Female Psychology - What Gets Women Attracted?

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x4m1tk ... ogy_school

You Are Enough (Psychology/Dating)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V3-EpyOrjBk

Destroy Limiting Beliefs (Psychology)

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x408oh ... efs_school

Are You a Victim? - Getting Rid of Your Victim Mentality (Psychology)

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x408oh ... tim_school

Transcending Your Identity (Psychology)

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x408oh ... ity_school

Staying Motivated (Psychology)

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x41iyq ... ted_school

Loving Rejection

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x41omo ... ion_school

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MONEY

Mastery of Money by Stuart Wilde

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MUDg6mXNX-I


LIFE SUCCESS

The Law of Attraction

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=opOXFCYWUdU

Change your mindset by Tony Robbins

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dkcC2fHPssw


SPIRITUALITY AND ENLIGHTENMENT

The Enjoyment of Beign FULL

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zP3s6l3IKVA

Laughter Breaks Through the Ego

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nyUG5KnutTo


PHILOSOPHY

Life is a Simulation - The Simulation Hypothesis

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VqULEE7eY8M

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It always amazes me how far can be thought to aquire a vagina. When did dating gurus starting their thing, 70', 80'?
Could you imagine if the same effort was made by women in how to achieve those things?
Have anyone meet a female dating guru, or a female PUA even?
I don't want to be a slave, I don't want to be told everyday that I need to spend all my money and time to get validation for a group of people that aren't even putting half of the effort.
Improvement towards what? Towards what I need or towards everyone says I want?

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Sylva wrote:
It always amazes me how far can be thought to aquire a vagina. When did dating gurus starting their thing, 70', 80'?
Could you imagine if the same effort was made by women in how to achieve those things?
Have anyone meet a female dating guru, or a female PUA even?
I don't want to be a slave, I don't want to be told everyday that I need to spend all my money and time to get validation for a group of people that aren't even putting half of the effort.
Improvement towards what? Towards what I need or towards everyone says I want?


When PUAs say "improvement" they mean "changing to a form more pleasing to others".

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Sylva wrote:
Could you imagine if the same effort was made by women in how to achieve those things?


Women, at least the attractive ones, spend hours in front of the mirror to do their hair and makeup. They'll spend a lot of money at the salons for manicures, pedicures, hair styling, etc. They have to pay more attention than men on watching what they eat to maintain a good weight. They also tend to spend a lot more money on clothes and accessories to improve their attractive appearance. Even then, women are still pretty much dependent on the guy approaching them and initiating, since women are rarely the first to initiate.

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Have anyone meet a female dating guru, or a female PUA even?


Yes, there's one on youtube who teaches men how to date. :lol:

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I don't want to be a slave,


You already are, as are 99% of people.
You're a slave to your social conditioning (environment, upbringing, peer group, school, TV, media, etc, have all influenced you to be who you are today).
If you aren't successful with women, chances are your social conditioning made you that way. So the first step is to rise above social conditiong and realize a new reality for yourself.

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I don't want to be told everyday that I need to spend all my money and time to get validation for a group of people that aren't even putting half of the effort.


Why would you need to spend all your money, unless you're buying escorts for the night?
Also, don't do it for the validation. Have a higher goal in mind.

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Improvement towards what? Towards what I need or towards everyone says I want?


The journey of a man is a continuous state of improvement and refinement.
Set your own goals and work toward them.

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When PUAs say "improvement" they mean "changing to a form more pleasing to others".


Most men are stuck in the nice guy mode of constantly trying to please others and please women, which is why they usually fail with women.
Simply changing to "please others" is not good advice at all.

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Sorry, I double-posted.

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When you live in a world where sexual interaction is so common and natural, you start to inevitably feel covered by this shadow of inadequacy. When you go to the streets is amazing to realize that all the thousands of people you see exists because twice as them had sex; twice as them were considered desirable enough. Damn, there's probably thousands of people having sex right now. When you're not choosing to remain this way, when you can firmly establish that sex is something so easy to get on general basis, how can you cope with the fact that you're not in tune with that normality? How to stay comfortable with yourself when you're such a small minority of the human spectrum? A minority that is looked down to because they're failing in one of the core aspects of the species: To reproduce.


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Hopeless_Romantic wrote:
Sylva wrote:
Could you imagine if the same effort was made by women in how to achieve those things?


Women, at least the attractive ones, spend hours in front of the mirror to do their hair and makeup. They'll spend a lot of money at the salons for manicures, pedicures, hair styling, etc. They have to pay more attention than men on watching what they eat to maintain a good weight. They also tend to spend a lot more money on clothes and accessories to improve their attractive appearance. Even then, women are still pretty much dependent on the guy approaching them and initiating, since women are rarely the first to initiate.


You're just naming physical aspects. Men also have to worry about clothes, haircuts, weight and going to the gym. But women aren't told they need to be interesting or witty, to be asertive and dominate body language. Women aren't told they need to achieve certain tone of voice and certain rhythm of speech. Told they need to go to countless seminars and buy books to attract a man. At least attractive women can have a reason not to be pressured to all those things, but what about unattractive ones? Why aren't the fat, ugly ones becoming PUA? We know the answer.

Having a diet is easy compared to years of gym routines and lifting and wating hours with makeup sounds better than spend days traveling to hear some guys talk 60 words by minute telling them that all about them is wrong.


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Have anyone meet a female dating guru, or a female PUA even?


Yes, there's one on youtube who teaches men how to date. :lol:


Never trust dating advice from a woman. Is like trusting fishing advice from a fish.

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Sylva wrote:
I don't want to be a slave,


You already are, as are 99% of people.
You're a slave to your social conditioning (environment, upbringing, peer group, school, TV, media, etc, have all influenced you to be who you are today).
If you aren't successful with women, chances are your social conditioning made you that way. So the first step is to rise above social conditiong and realize a new reality for yourself.


Don't get me into free will. I'm honestly conviced by determinism at this point. Sorry but social conditioning can't be reversed (not too much at least). I know I'm a slave in that sense but I don't want to be a conscious slave. Being aware of every word I choose, every hand gesture I make, every posture I take. If you have to make a mental note every time you move a muscle then you're not rising above anything, you're just following a script. Imitating what you think you should be, but just that, acting and never being able to asimilate that. Because it can't be asimilated by practice, only by genuine conditioning which can only be achive by been born again.

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Sylva wrote:
I don't want to be told everyday that I need to spend all my money and time to get validation for a group of people that aren't even putting half of the effort.


Why would you need to spend all your money, unless you're buying escorts for the night?


-Seminars.
-Traveling to seminars.
-Books, audiobooks.
-Clothes.
-Haircuts.
-Gym memberships.
-PUA sites subscriptions.

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Also, don't do it for the validation. Have a higher goal in mind.


Doesn't matter what goal a man has, if this doesn't ultimately or peripherally makes him attractive to women, he won't pursuit that goal.



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Sylva wrote:
Improvement towards what? Towards what I need or towards everyone says I want?


The journey of a man is a continuous state of improvement and refinement.
Set your own goals and work toward them.


Again, there's no goal in life a man can have that doesn't result in the chance of reproduction. If such goal exits, then this man has no desire of reproduction or sex (Da vinci, Newton) But for the rest of us that aren't geniuses or asexual, the desire of validation is always buried inside that pure goal we demed as "a goal on itself". In the end we are a complex form of cells but our goal is the same: Replication.

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Fonduman wrote:
When PUAs say "improvement" they mean "changing to a form more pleasing to others".


Most men are stuck in the nice guy mode of constantly trying to please others and please women, which is why they usually fail with women.
Simply changing to "please others" is not good advice at all.


Semantics indicate that the word "pleasing" has a different connotation for both contexts. Being a pleasing person is indeed a turn off, but being "pleasant" as Foundman states it means trying to please others while wrongly believing you're pleasing yourself. He's not saying you need to be polite, he's saying you're faking a persona to try to be accepted by this people. You can be fake "asertive" but never naturally asertive unless you had the right conditions and genetics to begin with. If that's not the case then you're just acting towards a consensus. Again, social conditioning can't be reversed by practice, only by genuine conditioning.

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I think it depends on one's motivations.

Eating healthy and lifting weights shouldn't be for you to get women, it should simply be for yourself, so you're in prime health and you feel amazing.
Learning about game and improving your social skills will positively affect all areas of your life, not just with women.
Becoming a more enlightened person and overcoming social conditioning, as best as you can, will also more positively affect all areas of your life.
Women should be just a byproduct, not the ultimate goal.

The human brain is very plastic, even late into life.
Social conditioning can be undone and new habits can be formed.

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Agree to disagree.

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Agree to disagree.


I have to go with what the science suggests.
You can literally change your brain and your DNA in a relatively short amount of time (just a few months).

Doing something as simple as 30 minutes of mindfulness meditation every day for a couple of months can change how genes are expressed in your DNA:

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http://www.scientificamerican.com/artic ... d-control/
http://www.fastcompany.com/3040039/its- ... e-your-dna

What you choose to do habitually will alter your brain chemistry and how genes are expressed in your body.
So how can one apply this knowledge to their life?

If a man wanted to radically alter himself, to improve himself greatly, so he would become a better communicator, more socially fearless, healthier, and more fit, what should he do? Well we know that trying a new activity and doing it habitually over time will change a person's brain and their gene expression (according to science). So with this in a mind, the man would have to: 1. Try new things 2. Do those things habitually.

So what new things should the man do to dramatically alter his life, to become happier, healthier, and more socially fearless?
Since we know he'll have to do those things habitually over time for them to have a real effect on his being, the man should plan to do those things for at least 3 months. A 90 day challenge if you will.

So what are some of the things the man can do for 90-days straight to radically alter his life for the better?
For 90-days the man can:
1. Meditate 30 minutes every day.
2. Avoid processed foods and only eat whole foods.
3. Exercise at least 30 minutes every day.
4. Do body building exercises 3 times a week.
5. Reduce internet and TV consumption to less than one hour per day.
6. Read a book for an hour a day.
7. Approach at least one woman per day.
8. Offer a kind compliment to at least one random person every day.
9. Write in detail the goals you want to achieve in the short term and long term -- Write them in present tense, as if you've already achieved them.
(Every night before you go to sleep and every morning when you wake up, read your goals aloud)

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Won't do anything scripted. Sorry.

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Won't do anything scripted. Sorry.


What exactly do you mean by "scripted"?
Many things you do in life will have to be planned ahead of time.
People make schedules, create goals to work toward, that's just a normal part of life.

If you don't have a basic plan in place to get somewhere, then you're probably not going to go anywhere, you'll just end up a leaf blowing around in the wind.

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Hopeless_Romantic wrote:
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Won't do anything scripted. Sorry.


What exactly do you mean by "scripted"?
Many things you do in life will have to be planned ahead of time.
People make schedules, create goals to work toward, that's just a normal part of life.

If you don't have a basic plan in place to get somewhere, then you're probably not going to go anywhere, you'll just end up a leaf blowing around in the wind.


And when that happens, they'll make excuses about why nothing ever works out for them. :facepalm:


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Sylva wrote:
Won't do anything scripted. Sorry.


What exactly do you mean by "scripted"?
Many things you do in life will have to be planned ahead of time.
People make schedules, create goals to work toward, that's just a normal part of life.

If you don't have a basic plan in place to get somewhere, then you're probably not going to go anywhere, you'll just end up a leaf blowing around in the wind.


And when that happens, they'll make excuses about why nothing ever works out for them. :facepalm:



if something works or not, i care that is genuine.

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