I'm reading a book called Intimate Connections by the same author. I'm not even halfway through, but it has the usual advice of learn to love yourself, participate in many social activities, think positively, and approach/flirt with strangers. I think these books offer legitimate help for people who may be in a temporary rut but have been in relationships before. For example, many of the success stories presented in the book concern divorced people or young women. For older male virgins, however, when there is clearly a major underlying issue, these books are probably pretty limited in their effectiveness IMO.
This kind of Oprah feelgood crap is for Wimmins and not for males of ANY age.
It will not confer the attributes of the dark triad or make you look hawt from across the room