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or it could just be the "grass is greener" mentality. Better looking guys messaged her and she decided you were not as good as them. Ive had a similar situation happen before where a girl messaged me first, I responded but she never responded back.


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not really different from real life eh?


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you don't react immediatly, there are a million other guys in line to take your place, same with real life.


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I get 60 messages (max is 90) in a day in one of the dating site I joined. I read through them but only respond to one that doesn't ask for my messenger right away on the first msg. I hate getting just "Hi and how are you" "give me your messenger" so I think sending long ones has more chances of getting responds but only if its context isn't full of crap.
We exchange messages for like a week then meet up in my choice of place. Once on a first date I could tell right away if the guy deserve a second date.....


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true, but Ive written long detailed messages and they still havent responded. So what makes more sense, short generic messages that you can send to a lot of women in a short amount of time, or 2-3 long detailed messages? Obviously, the shorter ones cause the odds are more in your favor.

I hate it when women say that, its so ignorant.


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My thoughts on online dating ...

1. Always fit your profile around the type of person you wish to meet. It's better to attract five messages from suited people who might be a match than 100 for the sake of *many messages* who may write in general but may not be suited.
2. You don't need to write much in an intro "Hi - I like your profile - we have X and Y in common - fancy a chat?" ought to be fine and anything extra they can read from a profile.
3. Never hold back from being who you are in a profile as it's this that will help your kindred spirits find you.
4. Never copy and paste the same message to loads of people.


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