its known that we as single men are treated as loosers... how many of you have lied about your situation in order to not be made fun of or being teased.. i regrett not to have lied before..some people are cruel and sadist..

When I was in high school, I had to pretend I was dating someone. But I didn't do it out of shame; I deemed it necessary because my friends had a habit of trying to match me up with other girls in my class, which made things very awkward. So I made up a fake girlfriend and started telling people stories about her. I was very convincing and my friends stopped their matchmaking attempts.

But my plan ended up backfiring. At some point I started liking the new girl in class, and she seemed to like me back, but she lost interest in me after hearing the rumours about my "girlfriend". That experience teached me that lying is bad (mkay).

What kind of things have people done to you after you've told them you've never had a relationship?

Never exactly. I mentioned to a new friend this year that my "record at college hadn't been great," but I don't know that I could ever plainly state a lie. I like to think my friends are pretty understanding, so I don't think any of them would outright shame me for it (but I could be wrong).

my friends never bring it up plus im pretty sure they already know... but yeah i lie all the time about having had girlfriends, i try to avoid details as best i can. but i say i've never had one for very long and that it's been a while

I never had to. My high school was a terrible place, but thankfully no one shamed anyone for not having a GF or sex.

During studies I went out to have a beer in pub with two next door neighbours. They started discussing past girlfriends, glancing at me with unspoken "your turn now to tell your story" -- with that pressure I admitted to have no experience, only to get shit advice about "just talk to them, behave naturally" which I pretended to take as a good coin. That learned me to avoid that subject, but apart from that conversation (I never went out with that guys, although we remained friends) the subject just never came out in casual talk -- or I just were meeting only gentle and polite people. One exception: my roommate's GF (I couldn't stand her and she probably knew that) asked me suddenly like "what do I feel about women". I answered sth awkward, which probably confirmed her suspicion about my homosexuality (and if she suspected it, her obvious intention was to make me uneasy). I recently connected to the guy on FB and found out she's not with that bitch anymore (good for him, I liked him anyway).

Nope. Never once lied. My philosophy is that the truth will out. And when it does you'll look even stupider than if you had told the truth in the first place. To be honest though, I haven't had any bad experiences from saying that I am completely virginal. None. People have asked me 'are you a virgin?' I've said 'yes' and they did either of two things. One was disbelief and the other was to carry on with whatever they were doing before the question. With the latter reaction it says to me that they were hoping for a stuttering, embarrassed answer. And therefore pretty much knew it before they asked it.

I have always wondered what kind of person asks someone an intensely personal question like that. It's quite rude, really. I don't think I've ever been asked this.

Yeah. The only appropriate answer seems to be "I'm not sure". An when one asks "How could one not be sure", then "I fucked only your mum, does it really count?".

I don't lie about people I've dated, but I do lie when people ask if I'm a virgin. If I don't, I'll be treated like shit probably.

Yes i have lied about it, i usually say i've had several relationships even though i only had one real relationship.

yes, but nothing too elaborate. because fortunately i didn't have to. nobody insisted on me being more specific.
the worst by far was in highschool, when one classmate, an asshole, asked me if i was a virgin. but then the teacher came into the classroom and he droped it.

My thing has always been more to be vague and change the subject.

Whenever anyone's asked, I've just said "Nope. Not got a boyfriend, either", thus successfully changing the subject to their views on homosexuality rather than my low social status.

I've never lied either.It's worse in the long run.At least, if people know my real situation they leave me alone without asking questions about my GF or where I will date her next.Or worse...how is the sex
In highschool was the worst period when all the assholes in class, who (I think) became lepers with no education and no future in real life showed up with new mobile phones and all dressed up and all the girls (should be read bitches) were all after them.And both treated me like dirt.I'll have my revenge when I'll get a better future than them.

same with me, sticking their nose in my affairs like fuck off, since their were people talking shit and causing problems (one of their disgruntled friends that they disowned told me later when i inquired) i decided to punish all of them (since they knew who was doing this shit, im dead certain of that) by cutting them out of my life. people in my college class treat me way better than any of those assclowns ever did.





have had people ask me questions about wacking, random people, and its like wtf man you cant just go around asking people stuff like that, thats privileged information , so i just pretended not to know what they were talking about and they went away and never came back. its quite rude to ask stuff like this to people who are not in your inner circle , if i did have sex with a girl i wouldnt be telling them about it, especially if it was a commited relationship (that would be between my wife and me and maybe very trusted friend)for the outsiders its none of their fuckin buisness, period. *slams a hammer down to illustrate the finality of that statement*