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While we're on the subject, has anyone had any problems with OkCupid fudging up the town/distance between people?

I've been talking to a girl for a few weeks (She actually messaged me first), and OkCupid says that she lives 24 miles away from me. However, I looked up her town in Google Earth, and it's about 120 miles away from where I live! I've seen other people on the site with the same town as her, and it lists them as being the true 120 miles away.

Did she put in a zip code that's 24 miles away from me, and OkCupid screwed up her town name? Or did it screw up the distance? 'Cause 120 miles is kind of far, and I liked her too... :|


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Been awhile since I updated but think I will to give more details about the actual dates. What worked, what didn't...etc.

Although to be completely honest, I am giving this gig a break for awhile. The women wear you out.


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i just signed up to plenty of fish today and kept my profile pretty brief and casual

i am about 5 foot 11 but i made me 6 feet as well thanks to rossinis advice and also when i spike my hair i look about 6 feet anyway

i am thin but i have a slight beer gut so when i weigh myself, i am about 180 pounds which overall doesnt seem thin to me and so i said average as far as body type, i think saying thin will scare some women off, let them decide how thin i am when they meet me in person

my photo is just me in a casual pose with casual clothes on, not overdoing it or necessarily posing for it

a real relaxed smile and facial expression

i drink almost daily but i said social drinker, again to not scare some women off

i only drink that much cuz i am bored and hangin with the guys, but if i was dating a woman, i wouldnt be drinking that much anyway so it would be more socially then

sometimes its good to appear to be just basic or average in your profile so at least you dont scare off women before they even meet you in person, even if you are stretching the truth just a bit or not revealing certain info, let them find out for themselves if and when they ever meet you in person

alot of womens hangups change when they see a guy in person rather than in a profile

if you act too honest, too descriptive, or too out there in profile, you will either get weeded out by almost every woman or scare off the rest

just try to blend in and eventually you may get a bite

i am waiting myself but not taking it too seriously

still easier than goin out to bars to pick up women

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what ive noticed in just 24 hours is that these women are just too fuckin ambitious and almost pretentious in the way they describe their hectic life

i am just too laid-back for that shit even though the women are pretty hot

i am still sendin messages and having fun and sayin some funny stuff cuz i know that pretty much every response will go in the womans trash heap

oh well it still beats doin nothin

a woman actually did message me and wanted to meet after just a few hours, but i wasnt that interested in her appearance but hey maybe i will just hang out with her and keep it casual cuz ANY woman is a gateway to other women so i did respond back

i live in st louis, LOTS of cardinals fans, BIG baseball town, but i like the blue jays but i still will go to a game cuz baseball is baseball!

the guys who are all "hung-up" on their one-itises should just sign up to plenty of fish and start messaging a bunch of random women and that gets your mind off of just one particular chick cuz i have noticed the more women i message, the less i really care what i put into it and i sound more care-free, laid-back, a joker, and just not really giving a shit but in a fun way, not a serious i am really desperate for you kind of a way

the more women you message/speak to, the less each one seems important, THATS how you rid the one-itis or however the fuck you spell it

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Anyone got any ideas of how to message a girl who "wants to meet you?" - I think its pointless to want to meet her back - better to just message her but what is the best approach in your experiences?

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Message her like you always would.

I didn't even realize that the thread was moved.

Anyway I just came up with an awesome new strategy...

Message the girls that don't have pictures. Think about it....they probably get less messages just on the fact that they could be ugly, and most of us don't seem that picky. So there is a better chance she will respond since she isn't getting the attention like the girls that have pictures.

I took the risk and did it, and it seems to be working. She eventually uploaded her picture, and well at least she isn't fat. :lol:


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Online Dating with 21 years? I guess my chances are small, very small xD

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