In MY experince, however, it is all useless if you can't get it up. What was I thinking? Grannies don't turn me on. Even those who were professional athletes and still have an unlikely sporty body for her age. Big surprise... That day I was unable to get it up or finish for many hours after the encounter, even by myself, even after drinking some booze, even with my favourite 'merry pictures', even though I did not 'spank off' before and was incredibly agitated and horny for whole week before the contact... ugh... talk about psychic scarring...
If only in this city it was easy to find a ok-looking prostitute... This is really hard to find a hooker who I might actually get a hard on for. The way they look and behave is just so off-putting.
Random cute 16-20 y.o. chicks on the bus, though... Mmmmmm, if think I am going to search for something *deep* in my pants pocket. Yeah, yeahhhh, here it is, right here, almost got it, riiight here, oh yeah...
p.s. ok, now I am that weirdo who did have kinda sex, (oral and not quite finished), but still no kisses, no gf. That whole virginity-shmirginity thingie... importance overrated. Now, for getting someone to be with you, however... that's whole another matter.

I realise older women may not do it for you, and I can understand that, but you would be amazed how well some of these older women look after themselves. I have been with 45 year old hookers who look no older than 30, and some women I saw were in their fifties yet they did not look a day older than 40.

Speaking only for myself, young hookers simply don't know what they are doing, and they are hopeless in bed, once you enjoy the pleasures of an older woman, you won't go back to young women again.

Yep. I second that. I lost my V card this year with a 48 year old. She was no beauty queen, but fuck me was she HOT!

For me it's been the opposite. Old women are fat, lazy and ugly to look at. How can you even get hard looking at such a sight?

Young ones (25-30) are fun to look at, light weight and energetic. Of course the only ones I've been with are Asian.

That hasn't been my experience with older women, if anything many of them are very fit for their ages, and yes older women make me hard. Young hookers may be good to look at, but their attitude sucks.

i had plenty of good experiences with young prostitutes so for me this doesn't count

To be fair, by older woman you're referring to the the best looking 40 year olds, i.e. the creme of the crop. You're average 40 year old western woman is hideous to look at.

What's your opinion on service from immigrants verses western women? I've only been with immigrant asian women because that's all that's available. I don't think of asian women as affectionate types. But I've gotten some hugging and kissing from them that I don't think I'll get from American whores with a sense of entitlement. Immigrant women know what men want and don't challenge demands.

Well, prostitutes are NOT 'average' women.
To stay in business, they do look after themselves. That 'granny' had a really trained, proportional body, clean skin, with only a small droopy belly (kinda expected at older age). She was also very well-behaved, eager, and friendly. So I agree with Inspector, wisdom and skill comes with age.

It's just, all of that is useless if the turn on doesn't happen. This is odd. I had multiple unwanted erections that day, and could not sleep well whole week. But when I actually decided to finally 'do it', it turned out not so easy at all. It took loooooooong time of 'manual labor' before I got 'battle ready'.
Lesson learned - only go for those you actually want, you can't just order your dick to get up.

That's why I stick with the younger ones. Perhaps others have had bad experiences with younger prostitutes, but I haven't and so I prefer the 18-25 age bracket or perhaps the 18-30 one, but that's stretching it. Older chicks don't really turn me on as much as the younger ones.

The update on new experience. Well, just as I expected. She was about my age, and totally awesome body, like those beauties in photo shoots. Well, guess what? It was sooo good, for an incel like me, especially. Well, I also had to pay twice as much, but I'd rather go 2 times as rarely than ever visit 'the granny' again. The whole experience of getting naked with someone your age and someone you actually might want (in a sexual way) make a radical difference. Almost instant turn on. She almost didn't do anything by herself, and I still was steaming. And she wasn't rude at all.

Great .

But for the love of God, DETAILS!

Ah, no interesting details so far. I kinda couldn't get it up consistently, because of emotional overload. Still touched her in every little secret female place, and we talked a bit... Not real sex, but I hope next time it will be done properly.
You see, for an incel guy, getting on bed with a naked girl around his age (maybe younger - she was kinda petite, small nible fingers and all) was an emotional overload. I mean, just seeing a female next to you, ready for anything is a major (positive) stress on its own, right? Some caressing and hugs followed, with some rubbing and such. She even kinda answered some of my actions, very weakly though, touching me in return. Ack, still no lasting erection.
I still stand by notion that boobies don't turn me on - they're nice, but oh well. Hers were a awesomely shaped, average-to-smaller size, soft and white. I have never seen skin so white and silky, actually. I was totally surreal. At least I was for a short time aroused non-mechanically (it was the case with 'the cheap-ass granny' (love this pun!) - only manual stimulation did it). Funnily, I expected her pussy to be somewhat worked up, worn out or smth. I looked kind smallish and cute, and seemingly tighter than I expected.
Of course, she was quiet and reserved, and seemingly nervous and very watchful, for obvious reasons, though tried her best to hide it. It's dangerous business after all. A psycho could easily strangle her or whatever in there, you know.

Overall, she totally looked like those unattainable ones. I guess, similar to those girls ardia posts in 'hot women' thread. Well, money can open some doors, no doubt about that. Shit, that was kinda too much $$$ for me, so I won't be able to do it as often as I want to, but I'll definitely go again. Even this time was worth it. Oh btw, I found her on a dating site. Just search for 'looking for sex'. Surprisingly there are quite a few. Some even don't ask for money, but they would probably reject shy, nervous or fugly LS/incel on the spot.
The oddest part: she actually lives in a 3 minutes walk from my home. LOL, what? Now that's convenient...

OK, just some questions.

You're from Russia right? Isn't prostitution illegal there?

Otherwise, I'm happy you had a good experience. When you do go for real sex, be wise and use condoms.

Actually, no. I'm not from Russia, though I come from both an ex-USSR country and an Eastern European country. This leaves a few countries for you to figure me out!
And we have that thing legalized, but on odd terms - prostitution legal, pimping illegal.
As for condoms, that's for sure. Maybe I'd have to go do a circumcision, as I kind of suspect it will hurt otherwise, since my foreskin doesn't easily slide back when I am fully erect. But that's technicalities.
The actual joy of bare agreing female in your arms is what's so awesome.
LOL, she even gave me a hug and a peck on my lips when I left and hinted that I will come back! (Although, I wouldn't kiss for 2 reasons - 1. too special and emotional 2. possible oral infections. Still I want to experience that. I only kissed a normal girl once on a cheek and that was eons ago, and she rejected me soon after, of course)

According to this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Prostitution_laws_of_the_world.PNG, it can only be Estonia then.