Well er.. Hi. Erm. I tend to be like this
There is so much rubbish in the mass media and none of it reflects me at all.
I think my problem is that I can't seem to get a date.

Ah, maybe I'm just too fussy. I really do not want the kind of woman who would try to clean up after me.
The one type of woman I do not want is a house wife kind. Leave the vacuum cleaner ALONE. It is not yours. If you see some dirt on the floor, tell me and I will sort it. Don't touch my dirty crockery, it is there for a reason.

I have a mother thank you I don't need another one. I'm a big boy now. OMG is she going to start cooking? LEAVE THE KITCHEN ALONE.

You see I've lived on my own for a long time now, and I started cooking my own food when I was an infant. I'm sort of self contained and I've always found it impossible to relate to anybody, and am usually a poor conversationalist though sometimes I can do the debonair thing.

Also I don't fancy ugly women, and women older than me give me the creeps. They all seem to be frustrated nymphomaniacs who want to tear your dick off. So I steer clear of these types. I like the nice women, it's the horrible ones I can't stand.

Boy, do I understand everything you're saying.

I'm fairly new here myself, but it seems we probably all understand what you just described... Welcome.

fragmented points without context/explaination...

I'd like to know more about oneitis. How it comes about. Must be something to do with getting mixed messages in formative years?

If the parents tell you "she's nice" and eventually they point out a girl that you really do think is nice so you agree. Then they say "Ha! She's outa your league buddy" then maybe you go around and as soon as you see a girl you find attractive, this triggers off the message "Ha! She's outa your league buddy."

Maybe then, as the circle rotates you develop oneitis.

Oneitis could be caused by cockblocking in formative years?

The remedy is what?

Hmm...


Move to Southern California if you are serious. The ladies here dig guys who are rich, handsome, do all the cooking, do all the cleaning, have a car AND party day and all night.

Not rich, dunno about handsome, not quite a house cleaning slave, don't party all night and don't have car. Can't afford to move to California.

NEXT.

wow..good.. same thinking haha

Oneitis is the dream that we are more than animals. [/poetry]

Oh. I thought Oneitis had something to do with obsessing over one person, the idea that it had to be them and no other will do.

Well, if all it means is the dream that we're more than animals, how does this affect ls?

Can't afford to move to California???????????

The nation IS in trouble then

I've had this happen to me. My parents, or someone else, points out a girl and says 'she's pretty, Adam'. When I try and pursue, suddenly she's 'out of my league'.

I don't know how to remedy oneitis, because I still get them.

Or maybe just that certain women are more than animals.