I am sorry for your loss. It seems the things that never happened impart the greatest loss. All the could have beens becoming definite again.

My condolences. I don't think it matters if he had been incel or not, what matters is that he was a good man. It's a bitch that the good die so young.

Erebus, I'm so sorry about your cousin. At least he died doing something he loved and not in long suffering. I hope you are well.

I send my condolences..sorry for your loss.

How are you holding up, Erebus?

Not well. Pretty depressed, because the funeral is coming. Thank you all for being supporrtive. Tomorrow will be very tough for me.

You two must have been somewhat close then. I am not very important to the extended family as far I as I can tell. I cried for the grandpa's brother I wasn't aware I had until he died. I felt I could have done something for him if I had only known. He lived alone in the countryside and had Alzheimers so got lost when he tried coming into town and they said that talking to people after church was very important to him. The people who were supposed to be taking care of him were heard to have wished he would fall into a snow bank and die.

Was thinking about you today, Erebus. I know today was a tough one for you.

Been wondering how you are doing, Erebus.

I am incredibly sorry to hear, especially to happen at such a young age. I would take solace in the fact that it happened quickly and he did not suffer, most people, including many of us will not have that luxury when our times come.