But an erection doesn't anything more then i'm horny or you make me horny but for men they get horny for any women that is attractive enough, doesn't mean he finds you anything special.

All this talk about validation, to me validation is the wrong basis to form a relationship from, so i'm suspicious of every women that seems to put a lot of importance in getting validation, which means i'm suspicious of most women.

Good thinking of you!

And I know that men believe approximately (among my acquaintances) 30 % of the female population "doable". And I now that you can get an erection only just because you are relaxed. But most women don't. My point vas, only a tight up religious woman who believe everything about the body is a sin would be upset by a mans erection. The rest would enjoy it, if she enjoys him.

I would say that everyone needs validation, but healthy people just cares about being loved and valued by that special one.

I healthy person doesn't seek validation active, and certainly not everywhere, but if they are in love, they need to hear that they are good enough, lovable. We all are a lite insecure, specially in love, then we all are very vulnerable. And a woman will be afraid she ain't good enough. In that scenario an erection would ease her mind.

Good thinking, the next time i will just pop out my erect penis and all will be well.

Are you jigging me now?

If I remember correctly Andrew Harlan was in a context when a girl could feel it dancing or hugging or something. That is very far from flashing

Hmmm....this conversation is making me think. Maybe I'm not asexual after all? Because the idea of a guy getting an erection is HOT.

Then again, I'm confused at what makes my libido tick.

yes of course, if it's mutual one triggers the other, and one confirme (better word than validation? ) the other in a mutual upward spiral.

Being accepted as a sexual being is very vital, if you have doubts in that area.

True words, babygirl. You feel good when the other one feels good.

Jigging?

And don't underestimate the power of my erect penis!

lol, i don't know what jigging is, but it sounds fun.

No it feels good ...

Nice