Okay. I think I've found another problem with you guys. Too many of you are Stacy chasers.

A Stacy is the female equivalent of a Chad. A typical Stacy is totally "normal" in every way. She's super confident because she has no difficulty being normal. A typical Stacy listens to whatever music is popular and keeps up with the latest fashion trends instead of creating her own unique style. A typical Stacy, much like a typical Chad, is a normie sheep who only likes normal things.

When people talk to one another, they usually talk about stuff that they are interested in. This is true for people who are looking for sex as well as people who are looking for friendship.

This brings me to love-shyness. In my opinion, most love-shy men are just talking to the wrong sort of woman. When a man is too nervous to talk to a woman, it usually means that he doesn't know what to say. If you don't know what to say to a woman, it almost always means that you don't share any interests ... or you don't even know what she's into because she's just a random hawt broad and you never bothered to listen to her.

You guys seriously need to find a woman who shares some interests with you. That shouldn't be too hard. The sports thread on this site has been stickied, indicating that quite few guys here are into sports.

Imagine a sliding scale of weirdness. 0 on this scale is normie stuff. 10 is for the weirdest of weird shit. Sports is a 0 on this scale, unless you're into something really weird like curling or lacrosse. You should have no difficulty finding a girl who likes sports. Tell her about you favorite team. Tell her about your favorite sporting memories. Ask her about her favorite team.

I just took a short break from typing this to check out the other sticky threads. Most of the music that you guys like is actually pretty popular and normal.

My two favorite bands are Mastodon and Tin Hat. Tin Hat is an obscure chamber music band that nobody really cares about. Mastodon is an uber-manly band with almost no female fans. You guys should, logically, have an easier time than me. You guys certainly have greater potential than me. I really mean that. You guys are into music that normal women have heard of.

The gaming thread on this site reveals that most people here are into realistic games with a serious tone. In other words, most people on this site like normie games for normal people. How hard is it to find a girl who likes these games? It's actually not hard at all.

I'm going to assume that you guys aren't lying to me or lying to yourselves. I'm going to assume that you are embracing what you truly enjoy instead of forcing yourself to enjoy what you don't truly enjoy. If that is the case, I must be the weirdest and nerdiest person on this site. You guys have far greater maximum potential than I do ... so you must be doing something very wrong.

Have you guys been chasing after random hawt women who you know nothing about? Is that the problem?

One last thing: Don't tell me "All of the women who love the same stuff that I love are ugly." If you think that way then you aren't love-shy. You are lust-shy. If you judge a woman based on her physical appearance, that it lust, not love.

What if we just enjoy what we like independent of who else may like it?

If you want o to adjust your entire persona to be accepted by unimpressive women, be my guest. I'm not in the mood for referring to all your childish assumptions and strawmen, but most of us are not chasing supermodels. Today women are so unwilling to make the tiniest effort to improve that is not worth to try. I got tired of looking for girls with my interests, so, for now, I can enjoy them by myself.

Maybe some of us need lust to be happy. I've fallen in love when there's no lust and I realize I don't want sex from the girl, I just want to kiss and cuddle. If she got into a relationship with me, that could get weird at some point. So I look for someone I can feel a deep emotional attachment to and a lustful desire to bone her brains out. To me, that's what the ideal love is. Is it a bit picky? Sure. But if your libido is really that intense, and you date someone who does not resonate with your libido, that's going to be unhealthy too. You will still experience out of control desires for other people and feel unfulfilled at home. For me, lust is a key part of the equation with love, it is not to be discarded as a mere bothersome superficial side effect. And yes, it's more important to me than sharing common interests. I can always get that from friends and such.