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Ok, thanks for the advice.
I think I will give up on the free dating sites. Everytime I message somebody, they ignore me.
Even women who have liked my picture either ignore me or close their account when I message them.

I think I might try a few pay dating sites to see what they are like.
Do lonely hearts columns still exist? I would try them if they do but I'm not sure where to look.


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I don't understand why so many women ignore my messages, I have sent lots of messages today, and I haven't had one reply.


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I'm still trying to get the online dating. Quite a few girls have liked my picture and one even put my profile on her list of favourites. I have even managed to get into conversation with one or two girls. One thing I cant understand is that when a girl has liked my picture, they close their accounts so I cant talk to them.


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Hi,
thanks for the advice.
I am becoming somewhat disillusioned with online dating, all the girls contact don't seem to reply. I have even thought maybe they can somehow tell that I lack experienced from my profile? I suppose I thought it was about dating, but that doesn't seem to be the case. Maybe I am taking it too personally.

In answer too your question, no I have never been on a date either from these sites or in the real world, my experience of dating is zero.


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Hi,
well I do get some likes for my picture, which gives me some hope.
I am using Plenty of fish and okcupid at the moment but I am thinking of trying some of the pay sites.

This is the text of my profile:
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I am an easy going guy looking for a relationship or to date.
I like the simple things in life like quiet coffee shops and pubs where I
can relax with good company. I also like fantasy and gothic art, nature and
romantic walks by the sea. If that sounds anything like you, maybe we could
meet up and see if there is a spark between us. My ideal date would be to go
to a coffee shop and get to know the person.

I know it sounds pretty bland, but I'm not very good at writing dating profiles.


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Pictures are important, and this may be useful:

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-39320580

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Hi,
thanks for the advice again.
To tell you the truth I am becoming a little bit jaded, I have tried a lot of different approaches, but nothing seems to work.
I think I look ok in my photograph, my profile is straightforward and uncomplicated. I don't really know what I'm suppose to do.
There are some really nice looking girls on there and some of them would be my perfect 'type' if we could meet up.
I think I might take a break from it for a while and work on other things.

How did you go about beating your love shyness?


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Ok cupid and Plenty of Fish both failed me after giving both over 2 yrs and playing with myself on pornhub would have been far more productive in trying to find a date. My issue with ALL dating sites is they are wortless money pits where women just ignore me. Match.com and eHarmony I feel owe me for the few thousand dollars they got from me. I never got help even from "coaches", who were always too busy to see I was struggling.

Dating sites may work for some. They are a crtical reason I find myself here. Nothing like being alone even online.


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